A relationship.
There is a fantasy among teens - at least once we must be in a relationship. Not all, but a few do have this wish. A guy/girl to care upon, who'll talk with us for hours without getting bored, keep us happy and make us happy, kisses, hugs and so many. Why not? Many of us would've even been in one. Before getting committed in a relation and after a few days into it, we'll feel that we are with the right person. We'll be able to make it till the end. We've found the perfect person for us. That may be true. Or even false, as in most of the cases.
Why teenage love doesn't last long?
Have you ever wondered, if you'll be able to take it till the end? End in the sense, marriage and a happy family.
Generally, modern days relationships are unpredictable. Unfortunately, they are bundled with insecurity and lust. When lust comes before love, breakup comes before anything. Teenagers aren't really matured enough to differentiate lust and love - thereby going with the flow and meeting the end.
People nowadays love the idea of romance more than anything. So although they want fairy tales, they don't want to work towards getting it. Always, in love, the efforts matters and not the size. A single photograph could make your partner happiest, while your efforts behind it are huge. That sort of romance is needed throughout in the relationship.
Relationship, these day, have become fancy. Teens think it's a proud moment to state they are in a relationship. It's more about showing to people that they have a fairy tale in their life. But, except those 2 in relationship, no other knows the exact sufferings or heartaches of each other in this real world.
Being in love and Being in relationship is completely different and independent. You can choose to love a person from distance without confessing or you can be in a relationship and yet have love for someone else or you can love a person and be in a relationship with them. Anything is possible. Unlike modern days relationships, love existed ages ago and it never had so much distraction.
Modern Days Relationships aren't as good as you think nor as bad as you've heard. As always, it needs a balance. Listening to one another, keeping up commitments, ability to differentiate the reel and real life, preferring face to face relationships, reaching milestones together, standing by during tough times and the same excitement level throughout are very important in the modern days relationship.
Romantic love is always meant to intervene your spirit with that of other. Experiencing a strong bond with your partner can make you believe that life without them would be dramatically different. Love is but the discovery of our self in others and the delight of recognition.
Above all, before getting into a commitment, think. Think if you are capable to take it till the end. Think if you can do it.
Make sure your promises aren't left void, as she left mine.
With Care,
Boo ❤
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A message from writer - This is for that one person - whom I love till the moon and back - but don't want her back. My sincere prayers for her better and beautiful life ❤
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